During my placement in a gynaecological ward, I encountered patients who had miscarried pregnancies. I provided emotional support, assisted in medical procedures, and ensured the comfort of the patients. I observed how the nursing staff managed these situations and learnt about the medical aspects and the importance of empathetic communication.

I felt a mix of sadness, empathy, and anxiety. Seeing the grief of the patients and their families was heart-wrenching. I also felt a bit nervous, knowing how sensitive the situation was and not wanting to say or do anything that might exacerbate their distress. As I continued to support these patients, I began to feel more confident in my ability to provide compassionate care. However, the emotional toll was still significant, and I sometimes felt overwhelmed.

I remained calm and professional, providing support where needed. I noticed that my communication skills improved as I learnt to listen more actively and respond with empathy. There were moments when I felt unsure about the best way to emotionally support the patients. I could have benefited from more guidance on how to handle such emotionally charged situations.

The event highlighted the importance of a holistic approach to patient care, particularly in sensitive situations like miscarriages or ectopic pregnancies. Emotional support is just as critical as physical care, and the ability to provide both is essential in nursing.

I learnt the significance of being emotionally present with the patient and the importance of creating a safe space for them to express their grief. I also gained insight into the medical management of miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies.

I learnt that dealing with loss is an essential aspect of nursing. It’s important to approach these situations with empathy and professionalism. I also understood the importance of self-care in managing the emotional impact of these experiences.

I plan to pursue additional training in providing emotional support and discuss these experiences with a mentor to gain different perspectives. Furthermore, I will consciously engage in self-care practices to maintain my emotional well-being.

I am committed to seeking opportunities to improve my skills in providing bereavement support, such as attending workshops or training sessions. I will make sure to have a support system in place, including mentors and peers, with whom I can debrief after emotionally challenging situations. I will also continue to reflect on similar experiences in the future and use these reflections to inform my professional development.